Monday, August 12

Eliminate negative thinking

Life is not easy, especially when you plan on achieving something.
Many times when you start doing something new, support and positive words is what you need. The problem is when you are surronded by negative people, they can make you feel low and useless.

After that you look at others and you might think they're smarter, confident and you're not any of those. What you have to do is to believe you can do it, no matter what other people say. But many people don't believe in themselves. Just because you once failed in something doesn't mean that you are a loser or that you cannot achieve something else.
I mentioned in my blog many times that it is important to eliminate negative thinking. Whenever you feel low, change the negative thought into a positive one. You are the driver of your mind, so take charge and keep it busy with your instructions by telling it where you want it to go.


''Love''
Dusana


Extra tip:
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The smell of an orange is known to reduce anxiety. Have an orange, take the peels of the orange and relax (put them on top of the heating in the winter). The orange peel will release a fragrant, giving your home a comforting aroma.

Using aromatherapy can help reduce anxiety, lift your mood, especially with other happiness-boosting activities such as exercise and healthy eating. 


Your own words are the bricks and mortar of the dreams you want to realize. Your words are the greatest power you have. They can get you on the fast track to manifesting your dreams. The words you choose and their use establish the life you experience. 
~Sonia Choquette~                                
 







Courseulles sur Mer en Normandie




My relaxing time






51 comments:

  1. I agree...often we're too hard on ourselves. It's important to think positive.

    Lovely photos!

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  2. The pictures are so beautiful!

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  3. I love this post is positive and i need some possitive thinking in my life right now!!I loved everything you said!the photos are awesome!thanks for your comment!!many kisses!
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    1. Hi Betty, thank you so much. I'm happy you like it.
      Have a lovely and positive week.
      Dusana :-)

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  4. great post

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  5. i need more positive people around me >.< btw i like your photos!

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  6. Hi lovely Dusana! miss you and your blog!

    I love this post of you so much. Because I am a positive myself and self controller all the way to positive. I always telling my hubby and my kids positive is the most healthier also make us to be kind to one another. Team positive all the way!!!!

    I love your maxi beach dress here, you look so lovely and relaxing in the pics!

    Thanks for the lovely emails, I enjoyed read your emails while my holidays:)!!

    I am back and posted:)

    Hugs and love leave for you here!

    oxoxo

    http://www.attraction2fashion.com

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    1. That is such a sweet message from you my dear Tanya, thank you so much. I'm happy you back blogging nicely rested and relaxed.

      Also it is nice to see that you telling your children and your hubby to be positive, like you said: team positive all the way :-)

      Big kisses!
      Dusana :-)

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  7. Loved your post.. Negotivity around can break a person from within..
    I am going to try orange next time for anxity..
    Brautiful pics.
    Keep in touch,
    www.beingbeautifulandpretty.com
    http://instagram.com/beingbeautifulpooja

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    1. Hi Pooja, thank you. Orange works very well. If you are really anxious, try also drinking orange juice.
      Dusana :-)

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  8. Great post! Thanks for sharing!

    Hugs, Brittany, xx

    http://polkaanddots.blogspot.co.uk/

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  9. I try the same, dear Dusana, although I know that no life is perfect I try to concentrate on the good things and on that things which makes me happy. I think it doesn´t make sense to speak and think a lot about this things which are aggravating ... wonderful that you have this approach <3

    And thank you for your nice comment on my blog - I checked immediately your blog with the result: I like it!

    I would like to follow you on gfc and/or bloglovin. It´ll be great if you come return to my blog to follow me – then I will follow you immediately back.

    xx from Bavaria/Germany, Rena

    www.dressedwithsoul.blogspot.de

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    1. Hi Rena, thank you for stopping by my blog, I'm happy you like it. Of course we can follow each other, I already follow you on bloglovin.
      Dusana :-)

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  10. really great post :D
    xx
    http://anoddgirl.blogspot.com.au

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  11. Great post! I totally agree with you words. Negativity is evil
    xx
    www.JuneWantsItAll.com

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  12. haaao love this post!!
    miss you dear♥
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    1. Hi Benny, thank you. I'm about to visit your blog :)
      Have a super day!
      xx

      Dusana :-)

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  13. Wow beautiful photos dear!
    Would you like to follow each other on GFC and Bloglovin? :)

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    1. Hi Vittoria, thank you :))
      Have a great day!

      Dusana :-)

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  14. Thanks for sharing such great tips. I'll need to get some orange for around my place!

    XO | KIMBERLYLUXE

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    1. Hi Kimberly, you welcome, happy to help. As I mentioned already, orange works very well.
      Dusana :-)

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  15. hi Dusana, thanks a lot to visiting, giving comment and even following me!
    sure, i'd like to follow each other ;)
    bisses, Fanny

    http://www.thestylerookie.com/

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  16. great post ^^ Your blog is a real inspiration!
    I would be glad to follow each other via GFC and Bloglovin <3

    http://www.dreamloveshop.com/

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    1. Hi Anna, thank you for lovely words.
      Of course we can follow each other.
      Dusana :-)

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  17. Gorgeous photos dear, you look amazing!!!


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  18. I agree! I don't like people who are constantly complaining, such surrounding can really made me feel more depressed and down. Though, everyone has own problems and sometimes it's really useful to cheer yourself up and try to stay positive! I love oranges and i totally agree that they help to arouse joyful mood;) Thank You for sharing such a nice post! Pictures are nice as well)
    Have a happy time!

    Alexandra
    www.svetusvet.com

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  19. Thanks for the comment, followed you on gfc and G+

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  20. Hi! ;) Thanks for the comment, I follow you on GFC and bloglovin' ;)) I read your blog and I support your thinking, because you write the truth about people psychology.

    Hugs,
    Marentora
    www.marentora-everdream.blogspot.com

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    1. Hi Maria, thank you for your lovely comment. I'm following you back on G+ and bloglovin.
      Dusana :-)

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  21. you're so right about this.I have my times feeling down and not confident at all but after a time I start to think I'm all good and there's nothing a person can't achieve if he/she is trying and working hard.
    Thanks for your inspiration
    xx

    www.styleofozoz.com

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  22. Lovely post! This is just what I needed now :)
    Sometimes it's so hard to go through all the negative-thinking people, to achieve a dream!

    Thank you for following me. I follow you back on Bloglovin!

    -Katherine
    highheeledconfusion.blogspot.com

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  23. This is great idea! People always are so quick to point out the negatives rather than the positives!

    Corinne x
    www.skinnedcartree.com

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  24. Relaxing time, I love i. And I love the beach. :)
    Thank you for visiting my page. Following you now, follow back ?:)

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  25. Super awesome!! I agree with you. sometimes we surrounded by negative people that can make us feel worth less.. so we definitely have to eliminate the negative thinking and don't think about what other people think!
    Great post! totally loves it dear♥

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  26. great dress ^^
    following you on Bloglovin ^^

    keep in touch <3

    http://www.dreamloveshop.com/

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  27. beautiful outfits,I follow your beautiful blog. I hope you will follow me back and I will wait for you in my blog 
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  28. Nice tips! ang great pics, relax total :D I follow you right now in Google Friend; take a look to my blog and said me what do you think about it and follow back? :) KelaTaconea
    Kisses from Spain, Kela

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  29. Beautiful beach side pictures and love the maxi dress.

    www.wear2day.com

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  30. love the part with "You are the driver of your mind", people just forget about this quite often. great post!



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  31. How is the lovely lady here been doing? I am so behind everyone else. Still catching up everything. smiling. But it's all okay to me, we do what we can that will leave us a space to breath! Enjoy your Friday sweet Dusana!

    Love, kisses!

    http://www.attraction2fashion.com

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  32. So so beautiful! I love these photos Dusana.
    Miss Margaret Cruzemark
    http://margaretcruzemark.blogspot.com/

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  33. amazing and lovly post!!
    love you dear♥♥
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  34. i totally agree with this :) its important to surround yourself with positive vibes and people. Life can be tough but changing your perspective on things can help alot :)

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  35. Hello, hello again Dusana! I hope you are having a lot of fun trip in Switzerland sweetheart! Hoo rayyyyyy! I wish I was there too:)!! I needed more vacation already:)!!! Speaks to you again soon!

    Hugs and kisses are sending to you there!

    http://www.attraction2fashion.com

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  36. belle foto (: Reb, xoxo.

    * Sul mio blog c'è un nuovo post, fammi sapere cosa ne pensi:
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  37. Wow, you look so pretty! Love your blog! I'm following you now. Hope you'll do the same.

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  38. Thank you all for such a sweet messages and following; I follow back.
    Have a great week everyone.

    Dusana :-)

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